When Everything Scatters - The Alchemy of Spring

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  The night is silent—the kind of silence that isn’t merely an absence of sound, but a presence: a dense, pulsating matter that presses against my temples and forces me to listen to my own breathing as if it were a foreign body. I write this in the hour when the light has not yet decided whether to be born or to remain forever in the womb of darkness. There are periods in our lives when everything scatters , when the boundaries of our familiar "self" begin to erode, much like riverbanks washed away by a surging current. This is not just a crisis; it is an ontological decay where our old identifications, the masks we have worn with such diligence, and the ego structures that gave us a false sense of security begin to break into their constituent parts. In a psychoanalytic sense, this is the moment of disintegration necessary for any true transformation. For the new to emerge, the old must lose its form, turn to dust, and disperse into space, leaving us naked and vulnerable bef...

Dealing with people who can't be trusted can be challenging

 Dealing with people who can't be trusted can be challenging, but there are some steps you can take to protect yourself:

✅ Set boundaries: Be clear about what you will and won't tolerate from others. If someone has consistently shown themselves to be untrustworthy, it may be necessary to limit your interaction with them or distance yourself completely.

✅ Verify information: Before you trust someone, verify their claims and make sure they are being truthful. If someone's story seems inconsistent or if they are constantly changing their story, it may be a sign that they can't be trusted.

✅ Trust your instincts: If something feels off about a person, trust your intuition and take appropriate action. This could mean limiting your interaction with them or avoiding them altogether.

✅ Document interactions: If you are dealing with someone who has a history of untrustworthiness, it can be helpful to document your interactions with them. This can provide evidence of their behavior and protect you in the future.

✅ Seek support: Surround yourself with people you can trust and seek their support when dealing with untrustworthy individuals. Having a strong support system can help you stay strong and protect yourself from harm.

✅ Practice self-care: Dealing with untrustworthy individuals can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. Make sure to take care of yourself and practice self-care to maintain your overall health and happiness.

Remember, you don't have to tolerate untrustworthy behavior from others. By setting boundaries, verifying information, trusting your intuition, and seeking support, you can protect yourself and maintain your well-being.

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