The Alchemy of the Void - A Journal of the Unformed

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
March 26. It’s early, or maybe it’s far too late for the sleep that never quite came to shelter me under its wing, and the air in the room feels heavy, saturated with that peculiar scent of cold linden tea and a thin layer of dust settling on the edges of unspoken words. Eh, how strange it is, this state of the shattered mirror , the one where until yesterday you saw not just your own face, but the entire world—ordered, logical, seemingly eternal—and now... now there are only shards. You know how it is; sometimes it feels like if you just don’t move, if you hold your breath long enough, time might take pity and rewind the tape to the moment before everything fell into its constituent parts? But it doesn’t. It just leaves you there, in the middle of the room, with an empty chair facing you and that deafening silence , which isn't just an absence of sound, but the presence of something heavy, almost palpable, pressing you into the floor. A breakup isn’t just an event; it is an alche...
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It's not the size of the jeans that matters, it's the size of the heart

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 The phrase "It's not the size of the #jeans that matters, it's the size of the #heart" is a #powerful #reminder that our worth as human beings is not determined by our #physicalappearance, but rather by the size of our character and the #kindness we show to others.

In today's #society, there is a lot of #pressure to #conform to certain #beautystandards, and many people are judged based on their #weight or #bodyshape. This can lead to feelings of #inadequacy and #lowselfesteem, which can have negative impacts on our #mentalhealth and #wellbeing. However, it is important to remember that our physical appearance does not define us, and that #truebeauty comes from within.

The size of our heart, or our capacity for kindness and #compassion, is what truly matters in life. When we treat others with #love and #respect, we create a ripple effect that can spread far beyond our immediate circle of friends and family. Acts of kindness, no matter how small, can have a profound impact on someone's life, and can even #inspire others to do the same.

In contrast, focusing solely on #externalappearance can lead to shallow and #superficialrelationships, and can cause us to miss out on deeper connections with others. When we judge people based on their appearance, we miss out on the opportunity to get to know them as individuals, and to appreciate their #unique qualities and strengths.

Another important aspect of the phrase "It's not the size of the jeans that matters, it's the size of the heart" is the #idea that we should focus on our #internalqualities rather than #externalvalidation. It is easy to get caught up in the quest for external validation, whether it be through #socialmedia likes or #compliments from others. However, this type of validation is often #fleeting and can leave us feeling #empty and #unfulfilled.

Instead, we should strive to cultivate qualities such as #empathy, #generosity, and #integrity, which can bring lasting #satisfaction and #fulfillment. When we focus on being #kind and compassionate towards others, we not only make a #positiveimpact on the world around us, but we also feel a sense of #purpose and #meaning in our own lives.

Of course, it is important to take care of our #physicalhealth and #wellbeing as well. Eating a #balanceddiet, getting #regularexercise, and taking care of our mental health are all important components of a #healthylifestyle. However, these things should not be our sole focus in life, and we should not judge ourselves or others based solely on physical appearance.

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