"Not my type"

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
 December 26. The hour is that indeterminate stretch between twilight and total darkness, when the light in the room acquires the color of old amber, and the shadows on the corners begin to breathe to the rhythm of my own thoughts. Today someone closes a door that I didn't even know I'd leaned in hope. The words were uttered with that polite, almost surgical precision that leaves no room for hemorrhage but causes a deep, thumping dull pain: "I will never fall in love with you, you're not my type." When you hear this, the first thing that leaves you is not the belief in the other, but the sense of your own wholeness. In the space of psychoanalytic experience, this "type" that is spoken of is actually a complex amalgam of unconscious projections, children's deficits and archetypal shadows that the other carries within it. When someone tells me I'm not his type, they actually say, "You don't fit my inner myth. Your face does not coincide wi...
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True love

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

From a spiritual perspective, true love is often associated with the idea of soulmates or divine connections. It is believed that the universe brings two people together for a reason, and that true love is a deep, spiritual connection that transcends physical attraction and superficial qualities. This type of love is seen as a blessing, and the wait for it is viewed as a test of faith and patience.

Psychoanalytically, the idea of waiting for true love can be seen as a process of self-discovery and growth. In this view, the wait for love can be seen as a period of personal development, as an individual learns more about themselves, their needs, and their desires. It is believed that by taking the time to explore these aspects of themselves, an individual is more likely to attract a partner who is well-suited to them and with whom they can experience a deeper connection.

Additionally, the act of waiting can be seen as a form of delayed gratification, which can lead to greater satisfaction and fulfillment in the long run. From a psychoanalytic perspective, this delay can also help an individual develop greater emotional maturity and resilience, as they learn to navigate the challenges and disappointments that may arise while waiting for love.

Overall, the idea that "true love is worth the wait" can be seen as a call to patience, faith, and self-discovery, both spiritually and psychoanalytically. By taking the time to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and what we truly desire in a partner, we can cultivate a stronger foundation for a lasting and meaningful relationship.

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