Happy Valentine's day

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
February 14. The world outside is submerged in a strange, almost obsessive intent for festivity, wrapped in the red silk of expectations and the noisy glitter of promises that often dissolve before they are even fully spoken. But here, in this enclosed space of my internal dialogue, silence has a different taste—it is thick, almost palpable, like a prayer that has not yet found its words but has already filled my lungs. I watch how the light of the winter sun refracts through the glass, leaving long, pale traces upon the floor, and I think of Love—not as an event, not as a date on the calendar, but as an ontological necessity , as the only breath that justifies our presence in this world of shadows and reflections. The Feast of Love often finds us unprepared because we, in our human fragility, are accustomed to seeking it outside ourselves—in the gaze of the other, in the warmth of a hand, in the confirmation of our own significance through the presence of someone else. Psychoanalytic...
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Why does the following divergence in life occur?

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 Why does the following divergence in life occur? Either you love someone and they can't love you back, or they love you and you can't love them back.

The divergence occurs because love is a complex emotion that involves many factors, including attraction, compatibility, timing, and personal circumstances. In many cases, one person may feel a strong connection or attraction to another person, while the other person may not feel the same way due to a lack of chemistry, conflicting priorities, or simply being at different stages in their lives.

In other cases, the situation may be reversed, where one person feels a strong attraction or connection to another, but the other person does not feel the same way. This can be due to a variety of reasons, including personal preferences, different life goals, or simply a lack of chemistry or compatibility.

While these situations can be difficult and painful to navigate, it's important to remember that love is not always a mutual or reciprocal emotion. It's also important to respect the other person's feelings and boundaries, and to focus on building healthy and fulfilling relationships with people who reciprocate our feelings and values.

Ultimately, the divergence in love is a natural and common part of the human experience, and can offer opportunities for personal growth, self-discovery, and the building of meaningful connections with others.

The scenarios of loving someone who cannot love you back, or being loved by someone you cannot love, are complex and can have many underlying factors, including individual preferences, timing, and personal circumstances.

While some people may attribute these situations to factors such as destiny or karma, it's important to remember that there are many factors that can influence these situations. Factors such as social norms, cultural expectations, personal values, and individual life experiences can all play a role in shaping our romantic preferences and relationships.

In terms of how to resist or clear these discrepancies, it's important to focus on building healthy and fulfilling relationships with people who share our values and priorities. This may involve being honest with ourselves and others about our feelings and boundaries, and actively seeking out relationships that are mutually fulfilling and respectful.

It's also important to focus on personal growth and self-care, as these can help us to build resilience and emotional intelligence, which can be helpful in navigating complex and challenging relationships. This may involve seeking support from friends, family, or a professional therapist, as well as engaging in self-care practices such as exercise, mindfulness, and creative activities.

Ultimately, the best way to navigate these complex scenarios is to focus on building healthy relationships and prioritizing our own personal growth and well-being. While we cannot control the feelings or actions of others, we can choose to approach relationships with empathy, respect, and an open mind, and to build healthy and fulfilling relationships that reflect our values and priorities.

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