How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...
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Forgiving and letting go of betrayals, insults, and humiliations

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 Forgiving and letting go of betrayals, insults, and humiliations can be a challenging path, but it is possible to achieve through a spiritual approach. Here are some ways to help you forget and move on from these painful experiences:

✅ Practice mindfulness and meditation: These practices can help you stay present in the moment and focus on the positive aspects of your life. They can also help you cultivate a sense of inner peace and calm, which can help you let go of negative thoughts and emotions.

✅ Practice gratitude: Make a conscious effort to focus on the good things in your life, even when you're going through a difficult time. Gratitude can help you maintain a positive outlook and reduce feelings of resentment and anger.

✅ Practice self-love and self-compassion: Remember that you are worthy of love and respect, and treat yourself with kindness and compassion. This can help you heal from the pain of betrayal and humiliation.

✅ Engage in acts of service: Helping others can be a powerful way to shift your focus away from your own problems and find meaning and purpose in your life.

✅ Seek spiritual guidance: Whether it's through prayer, meditation, or talking with a spiritual mentor, seeking guidance from a higher power can provide comfort and strength during difficult times.

✅ Practice forgiveness: Forgiveness is not about excusing the actions of the person who hurt you, but rather about releasing yourself from the pain and resentment that can hold you back. It can be a difficult process, but it can help you move forward with greater peace and acceptance.

Dealing with betrayals, insults, and humiliations can be difficult, and it is important to seek support and guidance from friends, family, or mental health professionals if you are experiencing any of these forms of mistreatment. It is also important to practice self-care and self-compassion to help cope with the emotional impact of these experiences.

Remember that letting go of the past takes time, and there is no one "right" way to do it. However, with patience, perseverance, and a spiritual approach, you can heal and move forward from the pain of betrayal, insult, and humiliation.

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