How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ

 ๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ, ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  - ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ฒ๐š๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ž-๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ, ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ฒ๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐จ๐ซ.

Betrayal is a deeply hurtful experience that can have lasting consequences. However, not all betrayal is the same. When someone consciously and purposefully betrays another person, it is a different category of betrayal compared to that which is carried out out of ignorance. The level of awareness and intention involved in the act of betrayal significantly impacts its impact and consequences.

When a person knowingly and intentionally betrays another person, they are acting with a level of awareness and intention that is vastly different from someone who betrays out of ignorance or circumstance. This type of betrayal is often characterized by arrogance and a desire to humiliate the other person. The betrayer may feel a sense of power or control over the situation, and their actions may be driven by a desire for revenge or personal gain.

In contrast, a person who betrays out of ignorance or circumstance may not fully understand the impact of their actions on the other person. They may act impulsively or without considering the consequences of their actions. While this type of betrayal can still be hurtful, it is often less deliberate and intentional than betrayal carried out with full awareness.

The impact of betrayal that is carried out with conscious intention and arrogance can be particularly devastating. The sense of betrayal can be compounded by feelings of humiliation and powerlessness, leaving the betrayed person feeling deeply wounded and vulnerable. In some cases, the impact of this type of betrayal can be long-lasting and affect the person's ability to trust others in the future.

Therefore, understanding the different categories of betrayal is important in determining how to address and heal from the experience. When betrayal is carried out with full awareness and intention, it may require a different approach to healing and forgiveness than betrayal that is carried out out of ignorance or circumstance.

In conclusion, betrayal that is carried out with conscious intention and arrogance is a different category of betrayal compared to that which is carried out out of ignorance. The level of awareness and intention involved in the act of betrayal significantly impacts its impact and consequences. Understanding the different categories of betrayal is crucial in determining how to address and heal from the experience.

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