How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐๐ž๐ฆ๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š๐ง ๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ฒ

 ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐๐ž๐ฆ๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š๐ง ๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ฒ. We often find ourselves making ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ about the actions, behaviors, and beliefs of others, sometimes without even realizing it. However, in many #spiritualtraditions, #condemnation is considered a negative trait that can lead to negative consequences.

One such example is the #ChristianBible, where the passage "๐‰๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ, ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐ž ๐›๐ž ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ž๐" is frequently quoted. This passage, found in the book of Matthew, chapter 7, verse 1, is a warning against the act of condemnation. It reminds us that if we judge others, we will be judged in return, and that we should focus on removing the logs from our own eyes before attempting to remove the specks from others.

From a #spiritual perspective, condemnation can be seen as a manifestation of the ego. When we judge others, we are often projecting our own insecurities and flaws onto them. We may also be seeking to elevate ourselves by putting others down. However, this kind of thinking is not aligned with #spiritualvalues, which emphasize love, compassion, and non-judgment.

So, how can we acquire these virtues and heal from the tendency to judge? Here are a few methods and #spiritualapproaches:

๐๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ #Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment and observing our thoughts #withoutjudgment. By practicing mindfulness regularly, we can become more aware of our tendency to judge and learn to detach from these thoughts. This can help us develop more #compassion and understanding towards others.

๐๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ž
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ #Gratitude is the practice of acknowledging the good things in our lives and being thankful for them. By focusing on the positive aspects of our lives, we can develop a more positive outlook and become less inclined to judge others.

๐‚๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฉ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ #Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. By cultivating empathy, we can learn to see things from another person's perspective and develop a deeper understanding of their actions and behaviors. This can help us become less judgmental and more compassionate towards others.

๐๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ #Forgiveness is the act of letting go of anger and resentment towards others. By practicing forgiveness, we can release negative emotions and develop more compassion towards others. This can help us become less inclined to judge and condemn others.

๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ ๐…๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ก
Focusing on our own #spiritualgrowth can help us become less judgmental towards others. By working on our own flaws and insecurities, we can develop more #selfawareness and become less likely to project our own issues onto others.

๐ƒ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ฉ ๐š ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž
๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฟ Developing a regular spiritual practice, such as #prayer, #meditation, or #yoga, can help us connect with our higher selves and #God, and develop a deeper sense of compassion and understanding towards others. By cultivating a deeper sense of #spirituality, we can become less judgmental and more aligned with spiritual values.

The act of condemnation, or judging others, is a common human tendency that can have negative consequences. From a spiritual perspective, condemnation can be seen as a manifestation of the ego and is not aligned with spiritual values. To acquire virtues such as compassion, empathy, and forgiveness, we can practice mindfulness, gratitude, empathy, forgiveness, focus on inner growth, and develop a spiritual practice. By doing so, we can become less judgmental and more aligned with spiritual values of love, compassion, and non-judgment.

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