How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

Cats

 Cats are often seen as having a relaxed and peaceful demeanor, this can be seen as a form of meditation or spiritual practice. In Zen Buddhism, meditation is a conscious effort to cultivate mindfulness and awareness, and to gain insight into the nature of reality. Observing a cat's relaxed state can be calming and grounding, and some people find that being around cats helps them feel more relaxed and focused.

The concept of a "zen cat" is more of a playful idea or meme that references the relaxed and peaceful demeanor that some cats have.

Cat hugging therapy, also known as "cat therapy" or "feline therapy," is a form of animal-assisted therapy that involves interacting with cats for emotional and psychological benefits. The idea is that holding and petting a cat can lower stress levels, reduce anxiety and depression, and improve overall mood. This type of therapy is often used in hospitals, nursing homes, and other care facilities to help patients feel comforted and relaxed. While the benefits of interacting with cats are widely recognized, it's important to note that not everyone is comfortable around cats or may have allergies or medical conditions that prevent them from interacting with them. In addition, it's important to respect the well-being of the cats involved in these programs and make sure that they are well-cared for and treated humanely.

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Hugging cats can have several physical and emotional benefits for people, including:

✔️ Reduced stress and anxiety: Hugging a cat can help lower cortisol levels, a hormone associated with stress, and increase levels of oxytocin, a hormone associated with feelings of happiness and well-being.

✔️ Improved mood: Petting a cat has been shown to have a calming effect and to improve mood, helping to alleviate feelings of depression and anxiety.

✔️ Increased feelings of affection: Caring for a pet, including hugging and petting, can increase feelings of attachment and affection towards the animal, which can have positive impacts on one's overall well-being.

✔️ Physical comfort: Holding a soft, warm, and purring cat can be a comforting and relaxing physical experience, helping to soothe muscle tension and relieve physical discomfort.

It's important to remember that not all cats enjoy being hugged and that it's important to respect a cat's individual personality and preferences. Some cats may prefer to be petted or held in a different way, or may not enjoy physical contact at all. It's also important to make sure that the cat is comfortable and safe while being hugged.

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