How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

Finding true love in the modern technology world

 Finding true love in the modern technology world can be challenging, as the prevalence of dating apps and online platforms can make it difficult to establish meaningful connections. However, there are still several ways you can increase your chances of finding true love in this digital age.

Be clear about what you want: Take some time to reflect on your values, goals, and what you are looking for in a relationship. This can help you to be more intentional in your search for love and to avoid wasting time on relationships that aren't right for you.

Join groups and communities: Look for online groups and communities that align with your interests and values. This can help you to connect with like-minded people who share your passions and hobbies, and increase your chances of finding someone who is compatible with you.

Use dating apps strategically: While dating apps can be overwhelming, they can also be a great way to meet potential partners. Be intentional about which apps you use, and take the time to create a thoughtful and authentic profile. Also, don't be afraid to move your conversations offline and into the real world as soon as you feel comfortable.

Be open-minded: Don't limit yourself to a specific type of person or relationship. Be open to meeting new people and exploring different types of connections. You may be surprised at who you connect with and where that connection could lead.

Focus on building a strong foundation: Once you find someone you connect with, focus on building a strong foundation of trust, communication, and respect. Take the time to get to know them on a deeper level, and prioritize open and honest communication.

Remember, finding true love takes time and effort, but by being intentional, open-minded, and strategic in your search, you can increase your chances of finding a meaningful and fulfilling relationship in the modern technology world.

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