How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...
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To love someone unconditionally

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 It can be challenging to love someone unconditionally when they are not able to reciprocate that love in the same way. However, it's important to remember that you can only control your own actions and emotions, not those of others. Here are some strategies that may be helpful in loving someone unconditionally, even if they are unable to do the same for you:

✅ Practice compassion: Try to see the other person's perspective, and recognize that they may be struggling with their own issues or limitations that prevent them from loving you unconditionally. By showing compassion and understanding, you may be able to approach the relationship from a place of empathy and connection.

✅ Set healthy boundaries: While it's important to love others unconditionally, it's also important to protect your own emotional well-being. If the other person's actions or words are hurting you, it may be necessary to set healthy boundaries to protect yourself.

✅ Practice self-love: Learning to love yourself unconditionally can help you to approach relationships from a place of strength and self-assuredness, rather than from a place of neediness or desperation. By cultivating a strong sense of self-love, you may be better equipped to love others unconditionally, even if they are unable to do the same for you.

✅ Accept the situation: Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we may not be able to change the other person's behavior or emotions. In such cases, it may be necessary to accept the situation as it is, and focus on cultivating love and connection in other areas of your life.

Remember, loving others unconditionally is a process, and it may take time and effort to achieve. By practicing compassion, setting healthy boundaries, practicing self-love, and accepting the situation, you may be able to build a relationship with the other person that is based on love, understanding, and connection, even if they are unable to love you unconditionally in return.

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