How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...
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By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 Here are some tips and tricks for ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฅ๐ฒ:

✅ Connect with others: Reach out to friends and family, join a club or group, or volunteer in your community to meet new people and develop new relationships.

✅ Practice self-care: Take care of yourself by eating well, getting regular exercise, and getting enough sleep. Engage in activities that bring you joy, such as reading, painting, or gardening.

✅ Stay active: Engage in physical activities, such as walking, running, or cycling. This can help to boost your mood and reduce feelings of loneliness.

✅ Seek professional help: If your feelings of loneliness persist or are affecting your daily life, consider seeking help from a mental health professional. Therapy can be an effective way to address the root causes of loneliness and develop strategies for coping.

✅ Practice mindfulness: Focus on the present moment and pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and sensations. This can help to reduce feelings of anxiety and increase feelings of calm.

✅ Write about your feelings: Keeping a journal or writing about your experiences can be a powerful tool for processing your emotions and understanding your thoughts and feelings.

✅ Create a routine: Establish a daily routine and stick to it, including activities like exercise, work, and leisure time. Having structure in your day can help to reduce feelings of loneliness and improve your overall well-being.

Remember, it's okay to feel lonely at times, and seeking help is a sign of strength. By taking steps to care for yourself and connect with others, you can overcome feelings of loneliness and live a fulfilling life.

Drawing, music, and sports are all great self-help methods for coping with feelings of loneliness.

✅ Drawing: Engaging in creative activities such as drawing or painting can help to reduce stress, improve mood, and increase feelings of fulfillment. It can also be a great way to express emotions and process difficult feelings, including loneliness.

✅ Music: As discussed earlier, music has the ability to evoke strong emotions, promote relaxation, and provide a sense of connection with others. Whether you prefer listening to music, playing an instrument, or singing, incorporating music into your daily routine can help to alleviate feelings of loneliness.

✅ Sports: Regular physical activity has been shown to have a positive impact on mood and mental health. Participating in sports or other forms of physical activity can help to reduce feelings of stress, increase feelings of accomplishment, and provide a sense of community through participation in team sports.

All of these activities can be valuable tools for managing feelings of loneliness and improving overall well-being. It's important to find what works best for you and make it a regular part of your routine. By engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, you can help to reduce feelings of loneliness and improve your overall sense of well-being.

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