One day I will play the accordion up in heaven, among the clouds

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  One day I will play the accordion up in heaven, among the clouds. There, where the air has no weight, where sound does not hurt. I will sit within the soft whiteness, and my fingers — those trembling witnesses of earthly imperfection — will move smoothly, confidently, without fear. There my hand will not make mistakes from the neurological disorder I have , because in eternity there is no misfired impulse, no confused message between brain and muscle, no clash between will and body. There everything becomes pure intention, an endless flow of sound and light, a complete merging between what I want and what I can . I see myself holding the accordion — that strange instrument suspended somewhere between breath and prayer. Each opening of its folds is like inhaling the sky , each closing — exhaling the light . Perhaps this is the prayer I’ve always searched for. Not the one spoken aloud, but the one the body whispers when the mind gives up control. There, above, perfection is...

Moving from a place of "What will people think?" to "I am enough"

 Moving from a place of "What will people think?" to "I am enough" can be a transformative journey that involves cultivating self-acceptance, self-compassion, and a strong sense of self-worth. Here are some steps that can help you along this journey:

✅ Recognize the role of social conditioning: Many of us grow up with messages from society, family, and culture that we need to be a certain way in order to be accepted and loved. We may have learned to prioritize other people's opinions over our own needs and desires. Recognizing the role of social conditioning can help you begin to question these messages and develop a stronger sense of self.

✅ Practice self-awareness: Take time to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. Notice when you are seeking external validation or when you are being critical or judgmental of yourself. Cultivate a non-judgmental attitude towards your own experiences.

✅ Challenge negative self-talk: When you hear the inner critic telling you that you are not good enough, question the validity of these messages. Ask yourself if they are based on fact or on a distorted perception of reality. Practice replacing negative self-talk with more positive and affirming messages.

✅ Cultivate self-compassion: Be kind and supportive to yourself, especially during difficult times. Recognize that making mistakes and experiencing setbacks are a normal part of the human experience. Practice treating yourself as you would treat a good friend.

✅ Identify your values and priorities: Get clear on what is important to you and what you stand for. Make decisions that align with your values, even if they are not popular or widely accepted.

✅ Take action: Use your newfound sense of self-worth to take action towards your goals and dreams. Take risks and pursue your passions, even if they challenge the status quo.

Remember, this is a lifelong journey and it's normal to experience setbacks or moments of self-doubt along the way. Be patient and kind with yourself and continue to practice self-acceptance, self-compassion, and a strong sense of self-worth.

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