How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

Loneliness

 Loneliness can be a difficult and painful experience, but there are several ways to address it and find connection and comfort.

✅ Connecting with nature: Spending time in nature can help reduce feelings of loneliness and stress, and increase feelings of calm and wellbeing. Activities such as hiking, gardening, or simply taking a walk in a park can help you connect with the natural world and feel more grounded.

✅ Planting: Gardening or planting can be a great way to connect with nature and feel a sense of purpose. Caring for plants can also bring a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, and the act of nurturing can be a source of comfort.

✅ Cat adoption: Adopting a cat can be a great way to combat loneliness. Caring for a pet can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment, and the companionship of a pet can help reduce feelings of isolation. Research has also shown that pets can have a positive impact on mental health, including reducing anxiety and depression.

It's important to remember that while these activities can help, they are not a cure for loneliness. Loneliness is a complex issue that can have many causes, and it's important to address it in a comprehensive way. Consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional if needed.

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