How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

๐‘ป๐’“๐’–๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’๐’๐’๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’„๐’•

 ๐‘ป๐’“๐’–๐’† ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’๐’๐’๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’„๐’• ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’๐’…๐’Š๐’•๐’Š๐’†๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’๐’”๐’† ๐’—๐’‚๐’๐’–๐’† ๐’˜๐’† ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’๐’†๐’ˆ๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’๐’…. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’•๐’‰ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’ ๐’˜๐’† ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’Š๐’๐’”๐’Š๐’…๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’•. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’•๐’ ๐‘ช๐’๐’–๐’“๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’•๐’“๐’š๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’•๐’ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’•๐’†๐’„๐’• ๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’… ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’• ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’„๐’๐’๐’”๐’•๐’‚๐’๐’• ๐’†๐’—๐’‚๐’๐’–๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”, ๐’†๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡-๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’†๐’… ๐’๐’๐’†๐’”.

This quote, spoken by Brenรฉ Brown, highlights the importance of valuing and protecting our true sense of belonging and self-respect. Rather than viewing these as commodities that we must negotiate with the world, Brown argues that they are fundamental aspects of our identity that exist within our own hearts.

According to Brown, the call to courage involves protecting our "wild heart" from constant evaluations, particularly those that we impose on ourselves. In other words, it is about embracing our authentic selves and resisting the pressure to conform to external standards or expectations. This requires vulnerability, self-acceptance, and a willingness to take risks and stand up for our true values and beliefs.

In a world that often places a premium on external validation and conformity, the call to courage can be a difficult one to answer. However, by embracing our inner truths and recognizing the inherent value of our own sense of belonging and self-respect, we can find the courage to live authentically and create meaningful connections with others who share our values and passions.

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