How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

Being highly sensitive

 Being highly sensitive can make life difficult, but it can also be a source of strength and creativity. It can also lead to feelings of loneliness, especially if one feels that they don't fit in with others or struggle to connect with others who don't understand their sensitivity. However, there are ways to cope with and survive these challenges:

✅ Embrace your sensitivity: Recognize and accept that being highly sensitive is a part of who you are and that there is nothing wrong with it. Embracing your sensitivity can help you build self-confidence and self-esteem.

✅ Connect with others who understand: Seek out people who are also highly sensitive or who have a similar outlook on life. This can help you build a supportive network and reduce feelings of loneliness.

✅ Practice self-care: Make time for activities that help you recharge, such as meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature.

✅ Set boundaries: Learn to say "no" to situations or people that drain you and make time for activities that bring you joy and peace.

✅ Seek professional help: If your sensitivity is causing you significant distress, consider seeking help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide support and guidance to help you manage your emotions and navigate life's challenges.

Remember, you are not alone and there is nothing wrong with being highly sensitive. With the right support and tools, you can lead a fulfilling and meaningful life.

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