"Not my type"

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
 December 26. The hour is that indeterminate stretch between twilight and total darkness, when the light in the room acquires the color of old amber, and the shadows on the corners begin to breathe to the rhythm of my own thoughts. Today someone closes a door that I didn't even know I'd leaned in hope. The words were uttered with that polite, almost surgical precision that leaves no room for hemorrhage but causes a deep, thumping dull pain: "I will never fall in love with you, you're not my type." When you hear this, the first thing that leaves you is not the belief in the other, but the sense of your own wholeness. In the space of psychoanalytic experience, this "type" that is spoken of is actually a complex amalgam of unconscious projections, children's deficits and archetypal shadows that the other carries within it. When someone tells me I'm not his type, they actually say, "You don't fit my inner myth. Your face does not coincide wi...
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Embracing the Purr-fect Therapy - The Wonders of Cat Hugging Therapy ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜บ

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 

In a fast-paced world filled with constant stress and challenges, finding solace and tranquility is crucial for our mental well-being. While various therapeutic approaches exist, one unconventional yet remarkably effective method gaining popularity is "Cat Hugging Therapy." Harnessing the power of feline companionship, this unique form of therapy has been proven to provide a range of emotional and physical benefits.

The Healing Power of Cat Hugging: Cats, known for their independent yet affectionate nature, bring an unparalleled sense of comfort to those who seek solace in their soft, purring embrace. Cat hugging therapy involves snuggling with these furry friends in a relaxed environment, allowing their gentle purrs and warm presence to work their magic.

  1. Stress Reduction: One of the primary benefits of cat hugging therapy is stress reduction. Scientific studies have shown that spending time with cats can lower cortisol levels, the hormone associated with stress. The rhythmic sound of a cat's purring has a soothing effect on the nervous system, promoting a sense of calm and relaxation.

  2. Anxiety and Depression Alleviation: Cats are intuitive creatures and can sense when their human companions are feeling down. Their affectionate gestures, combined with the act of hugging, can significantly alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression. The tactile stimulation from petting and hugging a cat triggers the release of oxytocin, the "feel-good" hormone, contributing to an improved mood.

  3. Heart Health Benefits: The act of hugging a cat has been linked to cardiovascular health benefits. Studies suggest that cat owners tend to have lower blood pressure and a reduced risk of heart attack and stroke. The calming influence of cat hugging may contribute to these positive effects on heart health.

  4. Social Connection: For those who may struggle with social interactions, cats can serve as non-judgmental companions, offering a sense of connection and emotional support. Cat hugging therapy provides a unique opportunity for individuals to experience the joy of bonding without the pressures associated with human relationships.

How to Incorporate Cat Hugging Therapy Into Your Life:

  1. Adopt a Cat: Consider adopting a cat from a local shelter to experience the benefits of cat hugging therapy at home.
  2. Volunteer at a Cat Cafe: Many cities have cat cafes where you can enjoy the company of resident cats while sipping on your favorite beverage.
  3. Attend Cat Therapy Sessions: Some therapists and wellness centers now offer cat hugging sessions as part of their therapeutic services.

Conclusion: Cat hugging therapy might be unconventional, but its effectiveness in promoting mental and emotional well-being cannot be denied. Whether you're a cat enthusiast or a newcomer to the world of feline companionship, consider giving this unique form of therapy a try. After all, a warm hug from a furry friend might be just what you need to unwind and embrace a healthier, happier life. ๐Ÿฑ๐Ÿ’•

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