How to love maturely without falling back into the mystical trap of illusion

  Sometimes the night greets me with a strange sensation — not so much pain as a question , one that slips into the periphery of my thoughts like a light unsure of whether it wishes to remain. After every disappointment there arrives this moment: the moment when you no longer ask “Why did it happen?” but begin to listen to a quieter, almost prayerful inner register: “How can it not happen again?” Not as self-blame. Not as fear of falling once more. But as the desire to learn to love without breaking apart, without turning love into a field where your own shadows outweigh the light. I write these lines as if in a diary, though I’m not entirely sure whether I’m speaking to myself, to time, or to that invisible presence I sometimes call soul , sometimes God , and sometimes simply my own inner ground . Here I want to gather not rules, but orientations; not boundaries, but supports; not prohibitions, but quiet, almost invisible paths toward maturity. Paths that do not reject the myst...

Spring Blossoms and the Healing Power of Rosehip Flowers 🌸

As spring unfurls its soft green wings, I’ve been drawn more and more to the quiet spaces in nature—those untouched corners where wildflowers bloom without needing to be seen. Recently, I took a slow, mindful walk through a sun-dappled path and found myself surrounded by flowering rosehip bushes. Their delicate pink-white petals, gently swaying in the breeze, stopped me in my tracks.

There’s a special kind of magic in these flowers—simple yet profound. The rosehip blossom is a symbol of gentle strength, resilience, and quiet healing. Long revered in folk medicine, the rosehip fruit is known for its rich vitamin C content and heart-supporting properties. But even before the fruit forms, the flowers themselves offer emotional nourishment. Their presence in the wild reminds us of nature’s ability to regenerate, beautify, and restore balance—without any effort on our part.

In the stillness of that walk, I felt the healing power of nature in a way I hadn’t in weeks. The fragrance of the blossoms, the hum of bees, the way the light danced through the leaves—it all seemed to whisper, “Slow down. You are part of this, too.”

Nature Deficit Disorder: Why We Need Wild Spaces

Today, many of us are experiencing what researchers call Nature Deficit Disorder—a term describing the negative effects of being disconnected from the natural world. This includes increased anxiety, depression, chronic fatigue, and even physical ailments.

Our ancestors lived in rhythm with the land. They walked barefoot, listened to the seasons, and gathered medicine from the wild. But modern life often pulls us indoors, into artificial light, into screens and tasks that never seem to end. We begin to feel restless, anxious, even numb—and we don’t always realize that what we’re missing is something as simple as a walk among flowers.

A Simple Practice for Spring

One of the most powerful things we can do to reconnect and heal is to take a mindful walk in nature. No goal, no destination—just walk, observe, and breathe. Here’s a simple practice you can try:

  1. Find a quiet green space near you—a park, forest path, or even a garden.

  2. Leave your phone on silent. Walk slowly, letting your senses guide you.

  3. Notice what draws your attention. Maybe it’s a flowering bush, like the rosehip. Pause and really observe it.

  4. Breathe deeply. Let nature speak to your nervous system in a language older than words.

This isn’t just a pleasant activity—it’s a return to our roots. A moment of communion with the living world that can reset our entire being.

Closing Thoughts

As I walked home, a breeze carried the scent of the rosehip blossoms with me. I felt calmer, clearer, more grounded. I was reminded once again that healing doesn’t always come in bottles or clinics. Sometimes, it comes in the form of a wild flower blooming quietly along a path.

May you find your own quiet bloom this season. 🌿

With love and petals,
Anelly Aya

 

 


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