"Not my type"

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
 December 26. The hour is that indeterminate stretch between twilight and total darkness, when the light in the room acquires the color of old amber, and the shadows on the corners begin to breathe to the rhythm of my own thoughts. Today someone closes a door that I didn't even know I'd leaned in hope. The words were uttered with that polite, almost surgical precision that leaves no room for hemorrhage but causes a deep, thumping dull pain: "I will never fall in love with you, you're not my type." When you hear this, the first thing that leaves you is not the belief in the other, but the sense of your own wholeness. In the space of psychoanalytic experience, this "type" that is spoken of is actually a complex amalgam of unconscious projections, children's deficits and archetypal shadows that the other carries within it. When someone tells me I'm not his type, they actually say, "You don't fit my inner myth. Your face does not coincide wi...
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Embracing Humility - A Reflection on Self-Centering and the Symbolism of Snow White's Mirror

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 

In the enchanting world of fairy tales, symbols often hold profound insights into the human psyche. One such symbol is the mirror in the timeless tale of Snow White, where the question echoes, "Mirror, Mirror, who is the most beautiful in the world?" Beyond the surface, this mirror serves as a captivating metaphor for the delicate balance between humility, self-focus, and the pitfalls of ego.

Ego Interpretation: Feeding the Ego and Narcissism

On one level, the mirror can be seen as a tool that feeds the ego, fostering a sense of narcissism. In this interpretation, the individual constantly seeks external validation, measuring their worth by the reflections of others. The trap lies in the illusion that true confidence can only be built upon the mirroring and approval received from others.

Ego Interpretation: The Snare of Dependency

Another facet of the ego interpretation emphasizes the need for external validation to establish one's value and confidence. However, this reliance on the mirroring effect becomes a snare, leading to dependence on external approval. The fear of loneliness, obsession with others' perceptions, and the imperative desire for relationships emerge as consequences of this dependency on the mirror.

Spiritual Interpretation: The Beauty of Truth and Self-Reflection

In contrast to the ego-centric interpretations, a spiritual perspective reveals a profound truth in the symbolism of the mirror. It suggests that true beauty and value lie in authenticity and self-awareness. The one who is genuinely beautiful does not need a mirror because they are the mirror itself.

This spiritual interpretation invites us to explore the idea that genuine beauty and self-worth emanate from within. It encourages a shift from the external validation sought in the mirror to an internal acknowledgment of one's true essence. By being true to oneself, an individual becomes the mirror reflecting authenticity, integrity, and inner beauty.

Embracing Humility: Finding Balance

The symbolism of Snow White's mirror serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of striking a balance between self-awareness and humility. While seeking feedback and external perspectives can be valuable, it should not become a crutch for building one's confidence. True self-worth blossoms from within, independent of external validations.

In conclusion, the fairy tale's mirror symbolizes a profound journey from ego-driven interpretations to a spiritual understanding of self-value. Embracing humility involves recognizing the beauty of authenticity, where one becomes the mirror rather than being trapped by it. In the quest for self-discovery, let us navigate the delicate dance between self-focus and humility, transcending the illusions of ego to find true inner beauty.

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