Dreams That Aren’t Mine

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya
  Ever since I was little, I’ve heard stories—of great successes, of glorious victories, of bright worlds waiting to be conquered. I was raised with the idea that dreams are our guiding light, that they are the engine of life, that we move forward through them. But over time, I began to feel that some of those dreams weren’t mine. They seemed to belong to someone else, to an image built from the expectations of others—of society, of family. They were foreign to my heart, yet I carried them like armor that protected me but also weighed me down and held me back. This was one of the most painful truths I had to accept—that many of the dreams I had chased weren’t born of my soul. They were someone else’s dreams, imposed by the outer world, by voices I heard before I had the chance to hear my own. At first, it was hard to admit this. We all want to be loved and accepted, and often we’re willing to sacrifice our own desires just to be approved. My life felt like a journey guided by map...
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Embracing Humility - A Reflection on Self-Centering and the Symbolism of Snow White's Mirror

By Anelly Aya Anelly Aya

 

In the enchanting world of fairy tales, symbols often hold profound insights into the human psyche. One such symbol is the mirror in the timeless tale of Snow White, where the question echoes, "Mirror, Mirror, who is the most beautiful in the world?" Beyond the surface, this mirror serves as a captivating metaphor for the delicate balance between humility, self-focus, and the pitfalls of ego.

Ego Interpretation: Feeding the Ego and Narcissism

On one level, the mirror can be seen as a tool that feeds the ego, fostering a sense of narcissism. In this interpretation, the individual constantly seeks external validation, measuring their worth by the reflections of others. The trap lies in the illusion that true confidence can only be built upon the mirroring and approval received from others.

Ego Interpretation: The Snare of Dependency

Another facet of the ego interpretation emphasizes the need for external validation to establish one's value and confidence. However, this reliance on the mirroring effect becomes a snare, leading to dependence on external approval. The fear of loneliness, obsession with others' perceptions, and the imperative desire for relationships emerge as consequences of this dependency on the mirror.

Spiritual Interpretation: The Beauty of Truth and Self-Reflection

In contrast to the ego-centric interpretations, a spiritual perspective reveals a profound truth in the symbolism of the mirror. It suggests that true beauty and value lie in authenticity and self-awareness. The one who is genuinely beautiful does not need a mirror because they are the mirror itself.

This spiritual interpretation invites us to explore the idea that genuine beauty and self-worth emanate from within. It encourages a shift from the external validation sought in the mirror to an internal acknowledgment of one's true essence. By being true to oneself, an individual becomes the mirror reflecting authenticity, integrity, and inner beauty.

Embracing Humility: Finding Balance

The symbolism of Snow White's mirror serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of striking a balance between self-awareness and humility. While seeking feedback and external perspectives can be valuable, it should not become a crutch for building one's confidence. True self-worth blossoms from within, independent of external validations.

In conclusion, the fairy tale's mirror symbolizes a profound journey from ego-driven interpretations to a spiritual understanding of self-value. Embracing humility involves recognizing the beauty of authenticity, where one becomes the mirror rather than being trapped by it. In the quest for self-discovery, let us navigate the delicate dance between self-focus and humility, transcending the illusions of ego to find true inner beauty.

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